Death is a natural part of life, but it can still be a stressful and overwhelming event when someone you care about dies. Pre-planning can ease some of the burden on your loved ones when you pass on, as all of your wishes will have been made clear beforehand. You can indicate the cemetery where you would like to be memorialized
in, and decide whether you want cremation or burial. Read on to learn about a few of the factors you should consider when you are deciding between cremation and burial.
There are some religions and cultures that specify whether their followers should be buried or cremated. If you are a religious person, you may already have an idea of what your final wishes are in relation to your beliefs. Some religions allow either cremation or burial, so personal preference may be more of a factor for your decision. Cremation can sometimes be seen as a sign of reverence for the departed.
The use of land is a concern for some people who are deciding whether to choose cremation or burial. Full-sized burial plots take up more land space than cremation graves, as a casket is significantly larger than a burial urn. If you have a family plot where your relatives are resting, find out if your remains can be cremated to be laid to rest there. This will save space for future generations as well as take less of a toll on the surrounding land.
Pre-planning your burial arrangements often means that you will be paying up front for your end-of-life services. Many people end up choosing cremation because it tends to be a more economical choice.
Inglewood Park Cemetery has been serving the Los Angeles area with dignity and integrity for over 100 years. Contact us at (310) 412-6500 to learn about the memorialization and interment space options we offer for both burials and cremations. We are proud to offer comfort to families in their time of need.
If you have recently lost a loved one, you may be feeling a whirlwind of emotions ranging from sadness and grief to happiness at fond memories of the departed. Even if the deceased was not close to you, you may still be expected to attend a committal service at a cemetery. A burial service is different from a funeral, which might take place at a house of worship or a funeral home. Read on to learn what to expect when you attend a committal service.
Where to Go When you arrive at the committal site in the cemetery, you’ll see that the area has already been prepared. The service might be held at a gravesite where a marker will be placed afterwards, or if the deceased chose cremation, the service could be at an interment space such as a columbarium. The officiant of the service may read a poem or religious passage before the deceased is lowered into the ground. This differs from a memorial service, where you will not see the casket itself. Depending on your relation to the deceased, you may be seated in a chair towards the front of the crowd, or standing if you are not a relative or elderly.
How to Participate
Sometimes, you and other attendees may be called upon to participate in the service. Some prayers use a call-and-response form, while others are meant to be recited or sung by all who are present. If you are comfortable participating, feel free to do so. Programs may be distributed so you know what you are expected to say and when.
At Inglewood Park Cemetery, we pride ourselves on offering compassionate and caring service to the families and friends of those who have passed on. Call us at (310) 412-6500 to inquire about having a memorial or grave-side service on our beautiful grounds serving the Los Angeles area.
When you learn that someone has passed away, it is a polite and caring gesture to send a card to the closest family members of the deceased. The card can be sent through the mail, or given to the family at the cemetery memorial. It can be difficult to know what to say in such a card, so it’s best to keep it sincere and simple. You can acknowledge that you are both sad and sympathetic to the pain that the bereaved person must be feeling, and express your condolences for their loss. If you have a fond memory of the deceased or any positive stories, feel free to include a short version. Depending on your relationship to the bereaved, you may want to offer your ongoing help and support to the bereaved should they need anything in the future.
The compassionate staff at Inglewood Park Cemetery understands that death can be a difficult time for everyone involved. That’s why we provide caring cemetery services and tasteful memorialization to help you deal with your loss. Call us at (310) 412-6500 to find out how we can help you preserve the memory of your loved one. Serving the Greater Los Angeles area since 1905.
Acknowledging a loss in a memorial service celebrates a life. A cemetery memorial service can be a rewarding moment for grieving family and friends, who can say their last goodbyes while reflecting on memories. Memorial services are often carefully planned with the deceased’s personality in mind while at the same time considering the expectations and relationships of his or her loved ones.
Watch this video to hear how comforting a memorial service can be for family and friends of the deceased, and also to learn some tips for planning a service for yourself or your loved one. You will find that there are many ways to personalize a service that best capture your loved one’s personality.
When planning a memorial for your loved one near the greater Los Angeles area, call Inglewood Park Cemetery at (310) 412-6500. Our cemetery offers a variety of cremation and interment options, with distinctive memorialization to honor your deceased loved one. Speak with one of our Memorial Counselors today to learn more about our services.
Losing a co-worker can be a shattering event, whether you knew the person well or were only acquainted. If you are going to be attending the memorial service of a co-worker, you may be wondering what the appropriate etiquette is. Here are some general guidelines that may help you.
Dress appropriately. It’s appropriate to dress tastefully and conservatively when attending any funeral. Even if your workplace is a casual-attire environment, you should err on the side of respectfulness when choosing what to wear to a co-worker’s funeral. Even if you do not think your co-worker would have been bothered by casual attire, consider the feelings of his or her family and friends.
Be respectful. Whatever kind of relationship you had with the deceased, it’s important to be tactful and respectful while you are at the funeral. Remember that your co-worker’s loved ones are present. Do not interrupt other people or tell inappropriate jokes. If invited to speak, you can tell stories about your co-worker, but remember to keep it complimentary and positive.
Offer your condolences. You should take the time to speak to the family and friends of your co-worker before you leave the memorial service. If you don’t know them, you can introduce yourself, but keep it short and polite. If you did not know the deceased well, simply saying “I’m sorry for your loss” is a respectful and appropriate way to offer condolences.
At Inglewood Park Cemetery, we recognize that the death of a loved one is a difficult time for any family, and we work to provide you with the resources you need. We have provided the community with more interments than any other cemetery in the Greater Los Angeles Area which we have served for more than a hundred years. If you are looking for a cemetery serving the Los Angeles area, contact us today at (310) 412-6500.