How to Start a Conversation About Your Final Wishes with Loved Ones
Having a conversation with your loved ones about your final wishes isn’t easy, but it may end up being one of the most important conversations you have. By talking to your loved ones about these needs, you will alleviate the pressure they will face when you are gone to make decisions about what they think you would have wanted. Having a conversation now about everything from your preferences for burial or cremation to which cemetery you’d like to be your final resting place will ease the burden on your loved ones during an already difficult time. These tips will help you start the discussion.
Start with a Reassurance
In some cases, bringing up the issue of your final wishes may cause your loved ones to worry that you have reason to believe you could be approaching the end of your life. If these are not your circumstances, start your conversation by assuring your loved ones that you are being proactive and that there is no underlying reason for bringing up your final wishes. Addressing this concern head-on will allow your loved ones to focus on the conversation instead of their worries.
Think Before You Speak
Before you start a conversation, take time on your own to consider your wishes and make decisions. It can help to write down some important points, the name of the cemetery you have in mind or a song that you would like to be played at a memorial service. Knowing what you want when you start the conversation will help you get all of the important details across.
Talk About Financial Planning
This conversation is the perfect opportunity to discuss the financial side of honoring your wishes. If you’ve made the decision to invest in pre-need services with a cemetery, make sure your loved ones know where the paperwork is and which cemetery to contact.
Pre-need planning with Inglewood Park Cemetery can play an important role in discussing your final wishes with your family. By investing in pre-need cemetery or cremation services in the Los Angeles area, you can remove this financial burden from your loved ones. Contact us today at (310) 412-6500 to learn more.